I’ve been in the same job for 13 years and haven’t received a raise — ever. My partner keeps telling me it’s time to move on, that I deserve more, but the truth is, I don’t know if I even want more. I’m comfortable here. I know the job, the people, the routines. It feels safe, even though I know deep down I’m being undervalued. Maybe I’m just scared of change. The thought of starting somewhere new, proving myself all over again, it’s exhausting to even imagine. My partner thinks I’m holding myself back, but what if I like it here because it’s easy? Or maybe I’m afraid of finding out I’m not as capable as I think if I try something new. I don’t know if the problem is that I’m too attached to my comfort zone or if I’m just content with mediocrity. Either way, I’m stuck, and I can’t seem to move.
